One thing I’ve had to deal with a lot in the last two years is not being someone else’s priority. I would consider ‘these people’ to be my close friends, but if you reverse that the other way I wasn’t an importance to that person’s life.
It is disappointing especially when you go out of your own way to make an effort to see these ‘so called people’ that were once ‘my friends’. These toxic friendships can make you feel down about yourself when you don’t have to be pulled down.
So I’d stop messaging to see if ‘my friends’ would contact me first. Suddenly from weeks became months of not hearing from the person which is sad.
I take these experiences as a positive as they teach me that I’m strong enough to walk away and that I’m worth more and worth having friends that will treat me right. The best advice I could give you is to walk away. If you’re unsure of how somebody is treating you think of, would I do that to a person? If your answer is no I wouldn’t, because I think that is unfair or really nasty then just walk your walk. Sometimes other people need to learn their consequences for their actions of how they treat a person. The best way for someone to learn is the realization that your gone and that isn’t how they should be treating someone.
It’s not fair if you let somebody walk all over you. All your allowing them to do is to put you down and to cause unnecessary stress in your life. Walk away with a positive knowing these people have taught you something. That they have shown you something right or wrong. Keep on going until you find your light at the end of your tunnel. Great new people are ahead to meet.
Perri xx
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